Granted. This is not a very OI post. But it’s my blog – and so I figured, where better to spout my opinion?
First of all, I’m tired of people making Nadya Suleman out to be a horrendous villain. Have you watched Jon and Kate Plus 8? No wonder Nadya thought she’d get a little love from the public – the Gosselins have made a living out of having multiples!
And it’s not just the free tummy tuck and hair plugs that Kate and Jon received either. It’s the free trips…to everywhere! It’s the free Gymboree wardrobe. At least the Duggars still shop at thrift stores! I’m using a lot of exclamation points, I apologize.
Kate is also – well, how shall I say it? Not very nice. Jon, I thought, was whipped in the beginning – now I think he’s just whiney. And neither one of them holds a job!!! (there I go again) The Duggars at least rent out properties and make their living that way. I also know that the Duggars would be able to support their kids without their TV show and book deal. The Gosselins? Not so much.
Before the Gosselins got their show they put up a website seeking donations. In fact, from what I understand, they put it up before the babies were born – asking for things like: a house and a 15 passenger van.
And they got them.
What makes Jon and Kate so different than Nadya? The fact that they’re married? The fact that they only had two kids (twins) before the sextuplets were born?
Further, why is OK for some women to have abortions and exercise their “reproductive rights” that way, but it’s not OK for Nadya to exercise her reproductive rights to have all of her embryos implanted? If we want the government to stay out of my uterus if I want to kill my baby – why are there so many “liberally” minded people suddenly calling for restrictions on how many children I can have? Back off.
It’s absolutely appalling.
No wonder Nadya is confused. Jon and Kate are heroes. They don’t have jobs. They might not get government funding – but they don’t need it. They didn’t have a media frenzy forcing companies to not support them. At $10 or $20 a pop for an autographed picture, who needs food stamps?
Let me add too, that Kate was also warned not to have so many embryos implanted – and they too were not in any financial position to have so many children at once. And yet Dr. Phil and Oprah put the Gosselins on a pedestal while simultaneously kicking Nadya Suleman repeatedly while she’s down.
Personally, I think they should all support themselves – give your money to charities for children suffering with cancer or something else you believe in.
I’ll put in a plug for the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation, since I have a son with Type 1 Diabetes!
For a great in-depth article on the real Jon and Kate read Jon & Kate + 8=$$$
Tags: abortion, jon and kate plus 8, large family, nadya suleman, the duggars, the gosselins
Thanks Mish for this. I also read the article you linked to at the end of your post. Very nice.
Oh. and reproductive rights are, as you imply, misunderstood. Most think that it’s all about the abortion but it goes beyond and encompasses keeping babies, location of the birth, etc.
I want to respectfully one of your facts. Kate didn’t have in-vitro, but rather artificial insemination after taking clomid. Therefor, she didn’t have control over how many embryos would result.
Oops, I meant to write “respectfully correct.”
Thank you very much for that! I appreciate the correction!
Best,
Mish
[...] My distaste for the Gosselins is not new, as evidence in this piece I wrote: http://organicallyinclined.org.....a-suleman/ [...]
I totally agree with this!! I am so glad to read that someone else feels like I do!!! Well written!
Nadia…you have been “so called” running from the media but, you wanted to be left alone. You didn’t take anybody’s advice or help. Now you are going to be on a reality TV show. The comment you made to Kate about need attention…you should not throw stones in glass houses. Seems like you need attention too maybe??? Kate…..who ever did you tummy tuck should be sued… it looks horrible. I can give you my surgeon’s number…he’s awsome.
WELL, I was most intrigued at the very end of this ARTICLE!!! Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation…..my son also has Type 1, and the disease gets put on the backburner all the time. More support there would be better than all this hype on Celebrities. KUDOS to you for that great article. LOVE IT LOVE IT LOVE IT!!!