We’ve had a little bout of consumerism here lately and it’s starting to drive me a little nuts. When we first moved to the city, I thought it would be great. No, really, I did. How fabulous not to have to drive an hour to go to the grocery store! How wonderful that we can go to lots of festivals and fairs and see and do things we couldn’t do before! How amazing that there is a bookstore full of homeschool items practically right around the corner. Simply divine that there’s a convenience store nearby so I don’t have to buy 7 or 10 gallons of milk at once.
Oh how wrong I was. What I wouldn’t give for the days when it took an hour to get to a grocery store. When I only went to the “big city” once a month to stock up on supplies. When I purchased most of our homeschool books online because it was easier to have them delivered.
Suddenly, I seem to be in stores as much as once a day for things we absolutely “need.” And my kids are starting to get the gimmes because of it. I have fallen back into old traps of getting them “just one treat” or just one thing – just because we’re there. It dawned on me just how much I am losing my way.
We we’ve been to no fewer than 10 various festivals and fairs this summer and my wallet is aching because of it. Every single journey was considered a “learning” experience but what am I teaching about our core values if I keep forking over $100 just to get into some of these events? Even going to yard sales has become an exercise in consumerism lately – granted, it’s recycled consumerism – but still! The kids always thinking that going to a yard sale is an entitlement to another toy or game. And because they’re cheap – I buy them. Now, don’t get me wrong, what I consider to be spend-thrifty, most people will probably laugh at. But even my new tendency to curb pick and get things off Free-cycle seems a little materialistic to me. What exactly do I need all of this stuff for? I fear it’s to fill a big house and to replace the things I know I’m missing in my life.
But they’re just things. And I’m getting a little tired of them.
Whether or not we choose to move to Alaska and live out our rural dream, right now I have to refocus and double my efforts to remember what living simply means. We’ve done well in reducing our main expenses, but I’d like to see our miscellaneous spending stop and start focusing on saving more. Just because we spend our money frugally or pack a lunch to go to a gazillion dollar fair, doesn’t mean we’re living simply – it just means we’re trying to get more for less. And the point, after all, is to be more and have less.























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